A 30-day relationship ritual
30 Days of Love Often
30 Days. A Few Minutes a Day. A More Intentional Way to Love.
You don't need to wait until your relationship is struggling to make it better. And you don't need hours of deep conversation to feel closer.
Sometimes it's the small moments—the questions we don't normally ask, the things we forget to say, the few minutes we intentionally turn toward each other—that keep love alive.
We created 30 Days of Love Often to help you do exactly that: one short daily reading and reflection for 30 days, designed to help you stay curious, keep learning each other, and create more meaningful connection in the relationship you already have.
And it's completely free.
Thirty days. One reading at a time.
Love doesn't just happen. We keep creating it.
Relationships can slowly become logistics.
- Work
- Bills
- Dinner
- Kids
- Phones
- Appointments
And somewhere in the middle of building a life together, it's surprisingly easy to stop being deeply curious about the person you're building it with.
Love Often is an invitation to keep turning toward each other.
Not because something is wrong.Because your relationship matters.
How Love Often works
Every day for 30 days, you'll receive:
- 01
One short reading
A thought about love, relationships, ourselves, or the person beside us.
- 02
One meaningful question
Something you may have never thought to ask each other.
- 03
A few minutes together
Read it over coffee. Talk about it while you're walking. Answer the question in bed before you fall asleep.
There is no right way to do it. The ritual is simply:
- Read.
- Reflect.
- Share.
- Stay interested.
Do it together
We believe Love Often is most powerful when both partners receive it.
When you sign up, you can invite your partner to join you. Once they have agreed to participate, we'll send each of you the daily Love Often reading by text, creating a shared space to learn, reflect, and connect.
Neither person has to remind the other to participate. You simply receive the same reading and take a few minutes to explore it together.
It becomes something you're doing together. Your relationship. Your ritual. A few minutes every day.
Not currently in a relationship?
You're invited too.
Love Often isn't only about learning another person. It's also about learning yourself—the patterns you carry, the love you want, what matters to you, and who you want to become inside a future relationship.
You can practice Love Often individually as a way of becoming more intentional about the relationship you have with yourself and the relationships you create.
Because ultimately: the goal isn't just a better relationship. It's becoming someone capable of creating healthier love.
Start my 30 days of Love Often
For 30 days, we'll send you one short daily reading and reflection designed to help you stay curious, keep learning each other, and create more meaningful connection in the relationship you already have.
And it's completely free. No card, no catch, no obligation — just a few minutes a day.
- One short reading, every day for 30 days.
- One meaningful question to talk or think about.
- Share Love Often with your partner! Simply send them the link to this page so they can sign up and receive their own daily reading texts.
- A daily text on your phone, so the reading never gets buried in your inbox.
30 days free. Stop receiving texts anytime.
Tell us where to send it
One reading a day for 30 days, delivered personally by text. Completely free.
This is our gift to you
Love Often is one of the daily relationship rituals within The Cohesion Method™, created by Heidi Love and Liam Strauss through The Cohesion Project.
Take the 30 days. Keep the ritual. And keep creating the love.
Heidi Love
Co-creator, The Cohesion Method™
Liam Strauss
Co-creator, The Cohesion Method™
